When I do my posts on my blog, I like to keep them funny and entertaining. There's enough sadness in the world already, so I like to give readers something to make them smile first thing in the morning. Today, I need to tell you about something not funny and something that will make you think the next time you make an important decision to do with your kids.
This morning while checking my email, I came across an email from Brain, Child Magazine. They were offering me a special on advertising for their magazine, so I decided to check it out to see what this magazine was all about. While clicking through the web pages, I came across their content page which lets you read some of the articles in their magazine. They seemed pretty interesting and while I made mental notes to come back and read some, this one particular title caught my eye; Guilty as Charged, her biggest crime was trusting her own parenting, by Bridget Kevane.
Curiosity got the best of me and I ignored the fact that I really didn't have the time to read anything right now and that I needed to get my post up. I couldn't help it. I kept reading and all the while going, oh my gosh. This article turned out to be about a well educated mom of three, who made a decision as a mom and this decision turned out to be debatable whether it was a right decision or not. You see, she decided to drop her twelve year old daughter and her same aged friend off at the mall with a three year old, seven year old and eight year old. She was tired and wanted to get some rest and figured that with their babysitting training, a cell phone with them and the fact that they weren't going to be there very long, that they would be ok. Unfortunately, the Bozeman Gallatin Valley Mall didn't agree with her.
Now, you need to go read this article (cause you know you want to see what happened) and please, please, please come back here and tell me if you would drop your kids off at a mall unsupervised and think nothing of it. Or, give me your opinion on what verdict you would give her if you were on the jury. Or, faced with the same dilemma, what would you do? Or, darn it, just comment something about it, I'm dying to find out what you think! (Anonymous comments are fine!) :)
Same Blog-New Place
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Do you think she's a terrible mom or is she innocent?
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Words With A Blogger Wednesday
I hope she doesn't mind that I talk all great about her and show some of her fabulous photos. Do people get mad when you write nice things about them? I wouldn't. Please write nice things about me some day, ok?
I'm sure alot of you have heard about this delicious blog-and Bakerella. She's been on Martha Stewart and got to go to PW's ranch and bake. Yep. She's famous. Amongst other yummy dishes, she makes these wonderful cupcake pops and mini cakes that I think is her signature item.
Aren't these so cute?
My favorite thing in the whole wide world-Hello Kitty.
These were made for "fighting cancer" project.
Here is another scrumptious looking treat-can you tell I have a big sweet tooth?
If you love her blog so much that you want to tell the whole world about it, she sells shirts and other apparel with her blog's name on it and they are quite cute. I wish people would wear a shirt with my blog's name on it too-would you?
If you want to know more about her and wonder if she would ever write you back, I'll save you the heartbreak and give you a bit of info that I've paid important people to find out. Ok, this is actually on her blog:
About Me
I enjoy baking and creating sweets for others to enjoy. In 2007 I took a cake decorating class that really sparked my interest. Since then I've been trying to improve my decorating skills. I hope to learn as much as I can about baking and decorating and then share it with you along the way.
Now that I've got you slobbering, go visit her blog and try to make some of her creations and then mail them to me so I can taste them. Please don't wait a year though like I would-they might not taste as good.
Monday, July 27, 2009
Kids say the darnest things
Friday, July 24, 2009
Stopping and smelling the roses
After lightening my work load a bit, I decided that I would take a day off and do absolutely nothing but relax. I napped, I spent time with the kids, read my favorite blogs, ACTUALLY WATCHED TV, and did a little writing-because I enjoy that. I did do one act of working, I cleaned my daughter's room. This I had to do, because it was really starting to look like a junk yard and every time I walked by it, I cringed and if I needed to go in it, I feared of breaking a limb. I guess you can say I enjoyed it because I make her help me and we spend time together and afterwards, she's so excited because SHE CAN ACTUALLY WALK IN IT AND PLAY. This benefits me too because then she's gone for hours playing with toys that she had forgotten about under the mounds of clothes and other toys thus, allowing me to have time to myself. Time To Myself- I like the sound of that.
Today, I'm going to get back to a more regular routine with getting that #$%& book completed. The hubby promised pizza and a dvd tonight-it's even a chick flick-so I'm excited about that. I know. I know- how pitiful. I remember the days of anticipation of going on a hot date to a fancy restaurant and tickets to some fancy play. Now, I get all tingly over a slice of take out pizza. Oh, how things have changed.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Introducing, Wedding Bliss Magazine
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Next, I'll start wearing granny underpants
With all the 'burning the candle on both ends' going on, I've been kind of slacking when it comes to my appearance. I used to not leave the house unless my makeup was perfect and would never wear sweats to the store. Lately though, it's been just too easy to go out in what I was wearing around the house. Makeup? Well, maybe I won't run into anyone I know. How does my hair look? Well, I'll just throw it up in a ponytail. It finally hit me like a brick when I started to notice that OTHER people were noticing...
You know when you've been slacking in your appearance when...
You run into a relative you haven't seen since before your youngest was born and they comment on how cute she is and how she looks just like her DAD.
You've waited so long to color your hair that if you stand in just the right light, they look like shiny highlights.
The checkout guy that used to give you all the coupons so you don't have to cut them out, starts conveniently "loosing" them.
The cashiers start asking if your four year old is your oldest daughter's daughter.
The undercover employees looking for shoplifters start following you around.
Your husband who usually NEVER cares what you wear when you go out, starts asking.
Needless to say, I should be getting back to normal here soon since I should be done with my online version of my wedding magazine tomorrow and then will be down to doing the page layouts for print. Wish me luck!
Saturday, July 18, 2009
Saturday Shopping- Eco Store
Saturday Shopping-No Throw
They have totally cute designs and are perfect for boys or girls. We were sent the green with zoo animals-Zach loves the zoo, so this was perfect!
Now, the fun part-they want to giveaway one to one of my readers!
Here are the rules:
Go visit them and come back and tell me which one you absolutely love and need to have.
Make sure you have a way for me to contact you and keep checking back to see if you won.
If you want extra entries, you can always follow me, subscribe, and/or twitter about it. (separate comments for each)
Contest ends a week from today: July 25th.
Friday, July 17, 2009
Bye, bye, Bella
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Words With A Blogger Wednesday
When Did you start blogging? July 2006…my three year bloggy anniversary is next week.
Do you make money from your blog? Nope. I wouldn't be against it, it’s just not in the cards right now.
How frequently do you post? I try to post a few times a week. Daily doesn't work for my schedule, but occasionally I’ll post two times in a day.
Do you have a favorite blogger(s) that you just can't live without reading? I love mamarazzi. ( http://www.mamarazzi.org/ ) They are so funny in a snarky sort of way. I have friends blogs that I check (they are on my dashboard and on my sidebar on my blog)
Have your readers influenced you in any way? Not really. I do love comments though. It helps to keep me going to know that people actually care what I have to say.
Has blogging changed your life in any way? Not really. I enjoy sharing what’s going on, without sharing too much. My immediate family all have “nicknames” so that things stay a little more private, while still allowing me to share my stories.
What do you do when you get writer's block? Cry. LOL. No really, if I can’t think of anything to blog about I have a list of “suggested topics” or I’ll go read others blogs. If I really can’t come up with anything, I don’t blog until I do.
Any other advice you might have for newbie bloggers? Write your blog your way. If you can only blog once a week, then that’s okay. If you blog every day, that’s okay too. My blog doesn't necessarily have a “theme”, hence the name Random Thoughts, but I know some other bloggers like to keep things related. If you ever get to the point where you feel like you are forcing it, step back, take a break and then come back to it later.
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Even more conversations with a four year old
Emily: "Mom, why am I the only cute one around here?"
Me: "Hey, now."
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Dad: "Emily, get back in bed NOW!"
Emily: "Dad, you're a "bleep, bleep" and a "bleep, bleep" !
Me: "Who's been letting her watch shows with cussing again?"
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Emily: "When I grow up, I'm marrying "Freddie" from iCarly."
Me: "That's fine, but he'll probably be a washed up, alcoholic, has-been childhood actor with no money. I hope we have room in the basement for you two to live with us."
Emily: "Umm, ok. Can I have a cookie now?"
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Emily: "Why did Daddy buy you something yesterday and not me?"
Me: "Because he bought you something the day before and sometimes Mommy needs presents too."
Emily: "No you don't, you're a MOM."
Me: "Hey, now."
Monday, July 13, 2009
Feeling like Stretch Armstrong
(this is just a sample cover-yes, that's me and my husband on the bottom of the page)
-Interview local wedding vendors so I have content for my magazine.
-My book is still in its editing stage and due in September to go to print in October.
-I have a wedding in August to shoot and I still need to order another lens, go out and check out the church and get to practising with that new lens that I haven't ordered yet.
-Visit my bloggy friends and catch up with commenting so they don't abandon me.
-Post more often on my own damn blog.
Could I have anymore on my plate? Oh yeah. I also have to fit in a very important task of BEING A MOM into all of that too.
Thursday, July 9, 2009
Maid-rites and sparklers
Emily: "Yeah, that was great. Now, let's go."
Next thing you know, she'll be telling me that Santa Claus isn't real!
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Heart Breaker
So, we took some all around the park.
Words with a Blogger Wednesday
I have someone who wants to play! Modern Mom from
How to survive Life in the Suburbs
I am a Mom to two gorgeous girls, and a wife to the true love of my life. I gave up a career I absolutely adored working with children with special needs and their families, to stay home with my family and embark on this crazy adventure of parenting in the Suburbs of Ontario Canada. This is the toughest and most rewarding job I have ever had and I would not change a thing.
When Did you start blogging?
My Hubby was out of town for business for two weeks in January. I needed an adult to talk to and ended up starting a blog instead!
Do you make money from your blog?
No.
How frequently do you post?
I usually post 3 - 5 times per week. Whenever the mood strikes. I'll admit I'm finding it a bit harder to find the time now that the kids are home for summer vacation and there are so many wonderful things to keep us busy.
Do you have a favorite blogger(s) that you just can't live without reading?
I don't think I could pick just one or two. I have quite a few blogs that I check in on every single day. Some I admire for their quick wit. Others for their brutal honesty and raw emotion, and still some blogs just for a peek into their everyday in a different place. I'm finding no matter where you live we all have an awful lot in common.
Have your readers influenced you in any way?
I try not to let readers influence me. To be honest, when I started blogging I didn't think I would have any readers at all! Now I love every single one of them..no really I do:)
I have kept my name and hometown a secret. No one in my life knows I blog (except my Hubby) and I hope to keep it that way. This way I can be totally honest about my experiences and share my thoughts without fear of reprimands!
Has blogging changed your life in any way?
It has become my new obsession. I will check on my blog before my e-mail. Even catch myself reading blogs instead of the local paper. Loving it!
What do you do when you get writer's block?
Take a day off. Try not to think about it. I started this blog for me. A place to write down my thoughts and because my Hubby was always telling me I needed to do more writing. He thinks I'm funny and I love him for that.
Any other advice you might have for newbie bloggers?
I feel like I'm a newbie so would gladly take advice from anyone else! Ha. If I had to give any...I guess I would say write about what you love and write from the heart. Those are the blogs I love to read..those are the thoughts I love to share.
Monday, July 6, 2009
Some more crap about me
I've been tagged by Random Thoughts!
A little about me.
The Rules:
1. Respond and rework; answer the questions on your blog, replace one question that you dislike with a question of your invention, add one more question of your own.
2. Tag other people.
The Questions:
What is your current obsession? I'm starting a wedding magazine that will be both online and print.
What are you wearing today? black sweats and a brown tshirt-does that match?
What’s for dinner? Probably tacos
What would you eat for your last meal? Lobster, salad, a Pepsi, and chocolate cake for dessert.
What are you listening to right now? Dora on the tv.
If you could go anywhere in the world for the next hour, where would you go? Europe to visit Germany and France again.
What language do you want to learn? French
What do you love most about where you currently live? close to family
What style is your current home decorated in? contemporary? I don't really have one style.
If you were a time traveler what era would you live in? 80's for sure!
What is your favorite color? toss up between red and black
What is your favorite piece of clothing in your own wardrobe? sweats
What were you doing ten years ago? Manager of a restaurant.
If you had $300 now, what would you spend it on? a new lens!
What are you going to do after this? going for a morning walk with the kids to the park.
What are your favorite films? funny ones and chick flicks
Your favorite books? suspense novels
Do you collect anything? bills-haha. When I was a little girl, I would collect horse statues.
What makes you follow a blog? Lots of great photos.
What artist has the most songs on your ipod? I don't own an ipod and Im not really into music but my phone mostly has Hannah Montana songs on it for Emily.
Ann's Question:
What makes you comment on a blog? If it's something funny or amazing.
Amy's Question:
What is your favorite thing to do when you have some free time? Write!
Anissa's Question:
As you know I homeschool -- If you could would you? Yes, I would and I probably could right now but I'm afraid of not being able to teach them all they should learn.
Tonya's question:
What is a talent you wished you had? to be able to sing.
Amy's question:
What is your favorite Michael Jackson song? I've been singing all of them all day long since it's like the media is playing something all the time these days, but I have to say Thriller is my fav.
Lynn's question:
There's been quite a few Celebrity deaths lately and it got me thinking. Though they are shocking and sad none of them have really affected me much. What is the one celebrity death that will really devastate you, if any? I would have to go with Farrah-that already affected me.
Aim's question:
You've just been given six months to live...what do you do with it? Spend alot of time with my kids, go to Disney World, just do what makes me happy, teach my kids all that I can and tell them that I will come back and haunt them if they aren't good.
Tess's question:
Which famous blogger, Dooce or Pioneer Woman, would you be if you could? I would be PW-definitely.
Ok, my tags are:
Buckeroomama
and
A Nut in a Nutshell
Saturday, July 4, 2009
Happy 4th and Saturday Shopping
I think I've found THE manual for first time parents. This book comes from the website, Sixty Second Parent. This book is a guide to raising 2-4 year olds and they cover every topic that deals with these ages. If you have a child(ren) between these ages or one on the way, you need to get this book and have it handy because you will want to refer to it on a daily basis. The first section of The Triumphant Child has different sections for each age group and breaks that down to the different parenting tips, social development and uses real parent-child stories. The other parts of the book break down to Parenting, Routines, Challenges, Changes-divorce, moving, etc., Fears and even Media suggestions.
A very important book to have for any parent and you definitely need to visit their website, which has a mountain of information, recommended toys and books to raise a "Triumphant" child!
Thursday, July 2, 2009
Have you been waiting?
I wanted to announce the winner of my Flat Belly Diet Book today since yesterday was the last day for the contest when I realized that I never listed when the contest would end-silly me!
So, the contest ended yesterday-yeahhh! Yes, I'm a dork.
And the winner is..................................
Andrea from
The Creative Junkie
Soooooo, come get your prize, fellow blogger dude!
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Words with a Blogger Wednesday
My blog is a personal blog with a little bit of business thrown in. I started out by blogging about my wedding, and my posts are now focused on my personal adventures (such as raising chickens), how to run a business, and (every once in awhile) the projects I've completed for my business.
When did you start blogging and your business?
My business also started in 2007, while I was planning our wedding (I had no idea wedding planning would open so many doors for me!). I drew my husband and I in front of the movie theater where he proposed, then posted it on the knot.com's message boards. My fellow brides-to-be really loved it and asked me to draw them!
How frequently do you post?
Your blog goes along with your business-do you recommend other business owners to start a blog to help grow their business and why?
Absolutely. My blog is the main entry to my website, according to Google Analytics. I try not to focus too much on my specific business when I post, because I don't think people find it especially fascinating (haha), but I throw in a "finished product" post every now and again. I think it's important to make sure your blog is interesting. If your readers find you interesting, hopefully they'll explore the rest of your website to find out what you do. I also like to ask my readers what they want me to write about, especially if they have questions about how to run a business. These are thing that I would have found helpful when I was just starting out, so I like to help other people.
Have you ever been contacted by the press because they found your blog? What do you do to promote your blog?
Yes! I have been featured on numerous websites that found me through my blog. I am very lucky in that I haven't had to do too much promotion of my blog specifically--a lot of my readers found me through Weddingbee. I have done promotion of my business, and my blog is connected to my business site. I'm not sure how many extra readers I've gotten that way.
Have your readers influenced you in any way with your products/blogging?
Absolutely! One of my favorite things about blogging is that it's interactive--I often ask questions of my readers, and I love to hear their responses. I have also asked them what they'd like to see, products-wise, and I hope to be able to deliver for them. :)
Has blogging changed your life in any way?
Absolutely! Now, if I have any questions I ask my blog readers. They've introduced me to all kinds of fun things (including new kitchen appliances!), and I've made friends online. It is really fun to be able to interact with people from all over the country. When I blogged for Weddingbee, I became mildly e-famous, which was also kind of fun. People recognized me when I was out with my friends or at my old job. It was pretty surreal!
What do you do when you get writer's block?
Unfortunately, I end up slacking off. I wish I had a better answer than that! ;)